NO MORE WAITING FOR YOUR HUSBAND TO CHANGE
Stop Arguing
Start Communicating
Hey!
I’m Tamera (like camera)
I chased happiness until my body physically couldn’t. New house, new spouse, new car, new job…I could not seem to stay happy!
Welcome! After facing the pain of a broken, abusive, childhood and the tragedy of loss, I found myself on a quest for happiness that led me on an exhausting chase of until I looked inward. This journey of self-discovery not only saved my marriage to Jared but also transformed my relationships with my family and myself.
In 2010, I began my career in the fitness industry, quickly realizing that true change doesn’t come from altering our exterior but from addressing our inner world. By 2015, after becoming certified in life coaching and behavioral change and earning a bachelor’s degree in behavioral science, I turned my focus to helping women just like me—those seeking lasting joy and fulfillment in their marriages and lives.
I believe that every wife holds the power to create a profound impact on her marriage, her children, and her personal happiness.
My approach to marriage communication and coaching is deeply rooted in my Christian faith, aligning with the wisdom of the Bible and the belief that change starts within. With hundreds of women coached one-on-one and through my membership programs, I’ve seen firsthand the ripple effect of joy and love that starts with a single person’s transformation.
I believe that every wife holds the power to create a profound impact on her marriage, her children, and her personal happiness. It’s not about waiting for others to change; it’s about initiating that change within ourselves. My mission is to equip you with simple, effective tools to become the joyful, connected, and wholehearted wife you were meant to be. Let’s embark on this journey together, transforming not just our marriages but our entire lives.
Learn how to in just three steps
Emotional Control
This is where we focus on deciding how you want to show up so you have fewer (or no) emotional outbursts that leave you feeling shame and guilt. This is what we call putting on your oxygen mask first.Â
Get Clear On What You Want
Now that you are in emotional control, we can focus on what you want and why. Sometimes during arguments, we know what we don’t want but we are not really sure what we do want, what is in our control, and what is not.Â
Communicate
Most people want to start here but they are missing the first two steps that we have in steps 1 and 2. This step is where you communicate (with total emotional control) what you want and equip yourself to be a constant companion when your husband doesn’t meet your needs so you can find and keep JOY in your marriage.
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Better Marriage Communication
$27/month
Better Marriage Communication is a foundational, all-women, membership that offers wives access to essential communication tools to start transforming their marriages. Members gain access to course workbooks, exclusive video content, and 2 monthly live Q&A sessions designed to foster a deeper connection with their spouse, all from the comfort of their homes. This membership is perfect for those looking to take a first step towards a more joyful and fulfilling marriage starting with communication and connection.
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Frequently asked questions
Q: What is marriage and life coaching?
A: Marriage and life coaching is a personalized process designed to support individuals and couples in achieving their personal and relationship goals. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on healing past traumas and addressing mental health issues, marriage, and life coaching centers on the present and the future. It’s about identifying where you are now, where you want to be, and the steps needed to get there.
Q: How do I know if marriage coaching is right for me?
A: Marriage and life coaching focuses on the present and future, helping individuals and couples achieve their relationship goals. It’s about improving communication, deepening connections, and fostering personal growth, with an approach that’s actionable, supportive, and often integrates Christian values for those who value faith as part of their journey. If you’re seeking to improve your marriage through personal growth, better communication, and a deeper connection with your spouse, marriage coaching is likely a great fit for you.
Q: Can you work with just one spouse?
A: Absolutely. Significant improvements can be made in a marriage even if only one partner participates in coaching, as changing one’s own behavior and perspective often leads to positive changes in the relationship.
Q: What can I expect from the coaching sessions?
A: Expect a mix of discussion, practical exercises, and personalized strategies to help you improve your marriage. Sessions are designed to be supportive, actionable, and grounded in Christian values.
Q: How can I access the courses and materials?
A: Once you sign up for a membership or coaching, you’ll receive access to all courses, materials, and resources through a secure online platform accessible from anywhere, at any time.
Q: Are the coaching sessions confidential?
A: Yes, all coaching sessions are strictly confidential, ensuring a safe and private environment for personal growth and discussion. This is within a group setting where you can post anonymously or change your name during Zoom calls to keep it private.
Q: What if my spouse is skeptical or opposed to coaching?
A: I encourage you to start the journey for yourself. The changes you make can positively impact your marriage and may inspire your spouse to become more open to the idea of coaching over time.
Q: How can I get the most out of marriage coaching?
A: Be open to self-reflection, consistently apply the strategies we discuss, and communicate openly during sessions. Your active participation and commitment to the process are key to achieving the best results.
Q: Do you offer any guarantees?
A: While the outcome of coaching can vary based on individual effort and circumstances, I am committed to providing the highest quality guidance and support to help you achieve your marriage goals. Â You have 7 days to check out the material and if you don’t see that it is a good fit for you, I will provide a refund.
Q: What is your cancellation policy for memberships and coaching sessions?
A: Memberships can be canceled at any time with no long-term commitment. Â I need 72 hours to process your request. For one-on-one coaching, please provide at least 24 hours notice to cancel or reschedule a session
Q: How long does it usually take to see results?
A: While individual experiences vary, many clients begin to see noticeable improvements in their communication and relationship satisfaction within a few weeks of consistent coaching.
Money Back Guarantee
Q: Is there a money-back guarantee?
A: Yes absolutely! We swear by our training, so much so we offer a 7-Day no-questions-asked money-back-guarantee.
