Reviving the Spark
Loving your spouse deeply yet finding yourself tangled in a web of dissatisfaction with the dynamics of your relationship is a complex place to be. It's a situation where the love is undeniable, but the day-to-day interactions leave much to be desired. If you've...
Think of Marriage as a Lifestyle
Marriage: More Than Just a Relationship, It's a Lifestyle Choice Think about marriage not just as a bond between two people, but as a lifestyle—a way of living that you actively choose and cultivate every day. As we step into 2024, let’s challenge the notion that...
Tame Your Brain to Improve Your Marriage
Let’s chat about the lower brain—our personal threat detector. Most days, it's just doing its thing on autopilot, scouting for danger without us even realizing it. Spot a snake while hiking? Your brain's on it, making you bolt before your brain's even processed what's...
Why Should We “Meet Him At the Door”?
Your spouse's coming home—maybe from work, hanging out with friends, or after a gym session—and there you are, ready to greet them with the biggest hug and kiss. It sounds simple, right? But trust me, it's a game-changer. It’s like this little reminder that you two...
A Peaceful Home
Oh, marriage! It's this beautifully complex dance where sometimes you step on each other's toes. And when things get a bit rocky, I’ve found it incredibly grounding to chat with Jesus about it first. There’s something about bringing my worries and annoyances to Him...
Are These Preventing You From Forgiving?
Reflecting on a recent study published in the journal Personal Relationships, it's clear that forgiveness, or the lack thereof, can profoundly affect the sanctity and health of our unions. Through the lens of my Christian faith, I see how essential it is to pay...
Will He Cheat On Me?
In the intimate journey of marriage, trust is both the foundation and the fragile treasure that couples must nurture and protect. For many women, the fear of their husband's infidelity is a shadow that can loom large over their relationship, often fueled by past...
Love Languages
Dr. Gary Chapman's seminal work, "The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts," introduces a transformative approach to understanding and nurturing love within a marriage or any intimate relationship. Chapman identifies five distinct ways individuals express...
Getting Past Mistakes in Your Marriage
As we navigate the complexities of relationships, it’s essential to remember that this journey is shared. Both partners play a vital role in nurturing the bond, learning from each other, and growing together in grace and understanding. This continuous cycle of...
Marriage in a Broken World
Marriage, as seen through the lens of a Christian wife, is a sacred covenant blessed by God, uniting two souls in a journey of faith, love, and mutual growth. Amidst the trials and tribulations of life, maintaining this divine bond requires diligence, prayer, and a...