Your spouse’s coming home—maybe from work, hanging out with friends, or after a gym session—and there you are, ready to greet them with the biggest hug and kiss. It sounds simple, right? But trust me, it’s a game-changer. It’s like this little reminder that you two are a team, the main characters in your own love story. Plus, it’s a warm way to show they’re valued and loved, especially in a world that can sometimes feel like it’s got it in for guys just for being guys. Let’s be the cheerleaders for our men, reminding them they’re more than just appreciated—they’re essential and deeply missed when they’re not around.
This whole greeting-at-the-door thing? It’s not just pulled out of thin air. It’s actually inspired by a snippet from Titus 2:4-5, reminding us of our call to love our husbands. And yeah, while the daily grind of chores and all shows love in one way, there’s something special about showing love directly, with those hugs and kisses.
So, challenge accepted? Start today! Make that greeting a moment. If you’ve got kids, let them know mommy’s got first dibs on welcome-home hugs and kisses. Remember, every guy is different. Some might want to spill about their day ASAP, while others might need a moment to breathe. The key? Just ask him what he needs.
And what about before they get home? What’s the vibe like? There was a time I’d basically toss the kid at my husband the second he walked in, laundry list of problems in tow—not exactly the welcome committee of the year, right? It’s not just about not being a stress-ball greeting; it’s about showing our kids respect and understanding for each other’s needs and space.
This idea is backed by some pretty solid advice from the Bible:
- Philippians 2:3 tells us to do nothing out of selfish ambition but in humility consider others more significant than ourselves. (I can’t even tell you how considering my husband’s needs over my own has changed our relationship. He now puts my needs over his WITHOUT me asking.)
- Romans 12:10-13 talks about being devoted in love, honoring one another, and being zealous and joyful in our service to the Lord. (Yes, the way you “wife” (mother, friend…) is the way you serve Jesus.)
- Colossians 3:23-25 reminds us to work heartily as if for the Lord, not for men, because it’s the Lord who will reward us. (You aren’t really doing this for your husband, you are doing it for the Lord. Although, it does change your husband when he is loved in this way.)
Even if your partner’s first reaction isn’t what you hoped for, keep the spirit of Colossians 3:23-25 in your heart. Our job isn’t to tally wrongs but to live out love and respect, trusting in the Lord to handle the rest.
And if your schedules don’t sync up? Adapt! My husband used to work from home a lot, so instead of the front door, I’d greet him at the basement door. It’s the thought and effort that count.
This challenge might seem small, but its impact? Huge. It’s about making those everyday moments special and showing love in the simplest yet most profound ways.
